This is parenthood. We all have the constant worry and panic that we are not doing things “right,” that our children are not doing what they are “supposed to” be doing, what milestones they need to accomplish, and our own baggage that surrounds our parenthood journey—for me, that is infertility, IUI’s, IVF, miscarriage, and then losing Colette; for others, it may be childhood trauma, postpartum mental health issues, traumatic births, and so on and so on.